5 Subtle signs your lover is losing interest in you

1. They no longer call, or return calls for long periods: This is more than just a subtle sign, this is a straight up red flag. Once they no longer call or return your calls for long periods, its a dead giveaway that they want out of the relationship. So instead of waiting, it’s usually best to have a conversation and separate if that is the only option.
2. They no longer show regard and affection like before: This usually manifests in their penchant for displaying affection to other people seemingly more than you, they make unguarded comments that sting and have no regard for your jealousy as a lover. In cases when they even show affection, it seems forced.

This is a subtle sign they are no longer down for you and rather that put up a fight to to get attention, it’s usually best to find out where you lost it, and make the next bold step.

3. Social media PDA over: Social media is one of the ways lovers show affection in recent times. For a relationship that used to have a lot of pictures of you on their bbm, snapchat, instagram and whatsapp, if you no longer see yourself there, it’s an indication of something wrong.

This might not be a sign they no longer interested, but in many cases it means they are less inclined to identify with you publicly. A subtle red flag that should be addressed.

4. You easily irritate them: This is another subtle sign that says a lot about how much they no longer feel for you. A love you always irritate should not be mistaken for one with whom you have petty couple fights. Once you find out they get upset with everything you do and seem not to be able to stand you, it means they no longer interested in the relationship.
5. They encourage you to spend time with other people rather than them:This one is a sure sign that they would rather not be in your company, and should not be taken lightly, but addressed so the relationship can either be fixed, or ended.

There are a lot of signs that spell the end of a relationship, but these are just a few. Even then, they might not mean loss of interest, but a mere down time. In the end you have to decide on either moving on, or fighting for your relationship.